1:1Work of The Soul
Embodied mentoring for emotional and ancestral alchemy
These sessions help you
uncover the gold in life’s struggles, heal the wounds that created them and integrate the lessons they are trying to teach you. They help you shift from blame to sovereignty, from confusion to inner clarity, from self-abandonment to authenticity, from sacrifice to love.
When the medicine is integrated at the soul level, life reflects it back.
This work is for you if you…
Are reflecting deeply and doing the “work”, yet something within you remains unresolved. You are weighted down by an unnamable load
Feel stuck in your circumstances, trapped in an old version of yourself, but the new you hasn’t yet emerged
Notice relational patterns of tirelessly working for love and hopelessly failing at receiving it
Have some intuition that you are not the victim, nor is anyone else to blame and life is mirroring back something important to you. You want the truth, even if uncomfortable.
Your intuition is right. This is not a dead end, nor an accident. It is an initiation into who you were always meant to be. Though this rite of passage isn’t easy, it is the rewarding work of a lifetime.
I’d love to support you on the way.
Discovery Call
Free
Here for the first time? Book a 30-min introduction on zoom.
Single Session
€90/h
A good place to start or to top up after longer work together.
Pack of 5
€400
Go deep and meaningfully shift your life. Valid for 6 months.
About this work
This work is no walk in the park.
It requires you to face yourself fully and take radical responsibility for the totality of your life. It relentlessly asks the questions “How am I creating this? What is it trying to teach me?”. It requires humility, maturity and utmost self-honesty. It asks of you to let go of all your props, your masks and everything that isn’t really yours, so the true you can finally shine. It feels like death. It actually is freedom.
The reward is worth it
- your aliveness, clarity and freedom from burdens that were never yours to carry. You are the Medicine, you are the Reward too.
It follows 4 simple principles
All that appears, has its place.
All your addictions, limiting beliefs, unpolished emotions, “toxic” relational patterns…they all have an intelligent reason to be. We approach them with reverence and curiosity, not with agenda. The gift is in the shadow.
None of it is your fault.
You can already let go of guilt and shame. It didn’t start with you - we unknowingly carry scars much bigger and much older than our personal journey would warrant.
It’s no one else’s fault either.
Don’t get me wrong – I don’t condone the unloving behaviours of others. Yet, I believe that these “others” appeared in your life through your own Law of Attraction to show you where you are not yet free.
It’s your responsibility.
Though it didn’t start with you, you are the only one that can end it. It takes your desire to sincerely look, your willingness to stop the blame game, your capacity to love and your courage to break the cycle of generations. It’s an act of service and, in my view, the hardest work of a lifetime.
What to expect from a session
Feeling deeply heard - we’ll unpack your story and give everything a proper place until no stones are left unturned
Gaining clarity and agency - we’ll inquire into how your present experience might be shaped by wounds that you carry from the past (not only your past)
Learning how to feel and heal - you’ll be supported to directly experience and process in the body what has been silenced for years
Deep self-investigation - weekly exercises of contemplation, self-observation and self-honesty to prepare the ground for your own wisdom
Cleaning up the mess - self-responsibility, repentance, repair and right action. This part is about becoming the good parent to yourself you once needed
Shifting from patterning to love in action and authenticity, in other words, becoming who you were meant to be, radiant and free from past burdens.
What this work is not…
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I am a certified clinical hypnotherapist and mindfulness teacher and have extensive training in trauma-informed approaches, but I would not call this therapy. The aim is not to manage mental health symptoms, though they often get alleviated as a by-product.
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In fact, we rarely address your problems directly - instead, we use them as gateways to see what life is trying to show you, understand your inner architecture and address the root, rather than the leaves.
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I don’t believe in lasting shifts in mindset without healing the wounds that created the original mindset to begin with.
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Your life and circumstances will however rearrange themselves (often fully) in response to the deep inner transformation that we are embarking on. It’s a by-product, not the aim
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In fact, the majority of the work, observation and contemplation happen in your everyday life. You could say this is therapy in action and your life is the therapist.
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Depending on the topic and the depth of the patterns we are addressing, the intensive part of our work together ranges from a couple of months to a year.
About me
I’m Iri. I‘m a clinical hypnotherapist, a trauma-informed mindfulness educator, a yoga teacher and a researcher. For the last 7 years, I’ve been supporting people through these times in life, where our comfortable structures start falling apart. Where the old you feels like a cage and the new you feels like a precipice. Where all you want is to wake up from this bad dream…
